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First come hate, then comes Division
You surely remember the old nursery rhyme...
Bobby and Mary, sittin' in a tree,
k-i-s-s-i-n-g.
First comes
love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in a baby carriage.
Kids to this day use that one to tease one another about the
wonder of attraction, and we know that boys and girls are sometimes merciless
when it comes to picking on one another. Fortunately, we all grow up, and we (usually)
have mature and healthy experiences with love and affection.
The poem has a few merits to it. The poem verbalizes the ideal. Love should come first, and then marriage,
and then in time comes a baby in a baby carriage, and when done in good order,
those are wonderful experiences, worthy of joy and celebration. Affection and attraction are good and proper,
which can lead to relationship and commitment, and these traits form an
essential part of our humanity.
Sadly, our relationships frequently do not endure, our
attractions are sometimes fleeting, and rather than fulfilling and rewarding
relationships, we too often end up in heartache and battle. And that applies to marriage, as well as to
friendships, business partnerships, politics, and any relationship that
involves humans. Rather than affection
that leads to relationship, we have animosity that leads to conflict.
As a nation, we are more divided than any point since the
Civil War. Politically and socially, we
are polarized. The gap and distance
between genders, races, rich and poor, liberal and conservative continues to
widen, the chasm ever deeper. The
weapons of warfare, usually words, grow ever sharper. Too often, the words become fists, bullets,
and even legislation. There is a
meanness, an anger in the debate and no one seems to want to find reason or
middle ground in which we can treat one another with decency or dignity.
Twenty four hour news and social media contribute to the
problems. A constant barrage of messages
fan the flames of anxiety and polarization.
Us versus them. The other
side. Either you are with me or against
me. You can clearly see the hostility
and antagonism in our political leaders, in activists of every kind, even among
religious leaders and those who claim to seek peace. There is a hatred, that is manifested in
actions, which leads to further division.
The result is not reconciliation, only more hate.
Humanity has a streak of merciless. It is time for all of us to grow up and find
a better way to treat one another.
I have some friends that are as lefty liberal as you could
imagine. I do not agree with everything
on their social or political agenda, but they are my friends. I have some other friends that are so
conservative they make the late Jerry Falwell look like a communist. I do not agree with everything on their
agenda either. But they are still my
friends. And I do my best to treat all
of my friends with respect, and dignity, even when I disagree with them.
If I was inclined, I could argue with all the folks I know,
criticize their opinions, and show them the error of their viewpoints, and the
superiority of my own view. I am a
fairly educated guy, I can win most of the arguments. But at what cost? Destroyed friendships, hurt feelings,
bitterness. And none of the arguments
will ever really change someone's mind.
They usually just reinforce the animosity and radicalize the
opinions.
Instead of arguing and trying to change the world through
hate and division and emotional destruction, Jesus took the way of peace and
grace. He showed love when people were
not very lovely. He showed grace to the
ungracious and undeserving. He showed us
the intrinsic value of all people, even when people were wrong. Jesus took the way of peace, and he calls his
followers to do the same. Because peace,
grace, and love are what will change the world.
I firmly believe that our nation, our world is headed in bad
direction. And the direction has nothing
to do with the politics or social concerns of the day. The direction we are in has no bearing on
gender or racial equality. The bad
direction that we are pursuing is simply one where attack, criticize, and
demean are the primary tools of communication.
Where debate means only to argue
and anger. And as long as we continue on
with this hatefest, we will continue to be ever more divided, more stressed,
more fractured as a community, a region, and nation.
So rather than argue, rather than add fuel to an already raging
fire, let us all step back. Learn how to
agree to disagree like ladies and gentlemen.
Accept the fact that opinions and experiences will vary, and let that be
acceptable. And start treating one
another with decency and respect for all.
We can disagree, but must we be so disagreeable about it?
The heavy metal singer Ozzy Osbourne had a hit with a song
called "Crazy Train." One of
the lyrics said, "Maybe, it's not too late, to learn how to love, and
forget about hate." Now, if someone
wild and crazy as Ozzy can see the error of this way of humanity, surely
reasonable people can as well.
Blessings and Peace to you all,
Pastor Brian
Thursday, April 13, 2017
On April 22nd, 1792, near the Duffields community, a group
of people met at the home of Mr. Christopher Collins, in order to form the
Baptist Church of Christ at Zoar. Over
the course of generations, that small congregation grew and evolved to become
the Charles Town Baptist Church, currently located at the corner of South
Samuel and East Congress Streets. This
year, the church celebrates its 225th Anniversary, and will hold a special
worship service at 10 am on Sunday April 23rd.
As the current pastor of that congregation, I have the
privilege of reflecting on the history and legacy of our community of faith, as
well as looking ahead to the current and future work of the church. Each generation that has come and gone has
contributed to that work, each pastor has given of his time, service, and love
to the people of our community. We have
endured, overcome a variety of challenges, and we continue to build on a
foundation of love for people and our Lord Jesus Christ.
Even our buildings reflect that continual desire to
continually improve our ability to reach and serve the community. The original building on our current site was
built in the 1850s, damaged during the Civil War, and eventually torn down and
replaced. Our current worship center was
built in 1914, and each generation has expanded our facility to enable us to
accomplish more for the Kingdom of God.
A Sunday School wing in the 1950s, a music annex in the 1960s, and most
recently a Fellowship Hall in 2009. We
are continually evolving and looking ahead.
Our programs and ministries have continued to grow and
expand. From a simple gathering on
Sunday for prayer and preaching, to adding discipleship classes and Sunday
School, to midweek Bible Study, home groups, service opportunities, and mission
trips to places as far away as South Dakota, Alaska, and Canada. It is a continual process of growth and an
ever expanding reach for the sake of the Gospel.
In every generation, music and worship styles change in ways
that reflect the culture in which we live.
Likewise, our congregation seeks to honor the best of classic church
hymns and traditions, while still exploring contemporary praise. Fortunately, we are blessed to have a wide
variety of talented musicians that have the ability to sing and play a very
broad range of styles, reflecting the best of every genre. Style is secondary to substance, and the goal
is to worship with heart and passion, whatever the format.
Every minister has a few favorite phrases that get
repeated. One of my favorites that I
share with the church regularly is this - "We own our history; our history
does not own us." By that I mean to say that we seek to honor the legacy
of the many generations that have gone before us, but we are not locked into a
particular format or ministry simply because we have always done it
previously. Our predecessors continually
sought improvement and relevance to the community and culture that surrounded
them. We best honor our history by doing
the very same, by exploring new avenues of ministry, new connections to our
community, and new experiences that worship our Lord and expand our faith.
Charles Town Baptist Church is an exciting and unique
congregation, with a vibrant and living history. While we celebrate our 225th anniversary and
honor our past, we are also looking to a bright and exciting future of serving
our God by serving His people.
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